The Romance in Alphabets <3

Hey Guys!

A friend of mine- the lovely cute Lyn, tagged me on this which was real interesting.

It’s some quotes & words of wisdom on love derived by Alphabets.

Originally this was tagged to me in Chinese, but I’ve tried to translate it into English as best as I can.

It may not be 100% accurate & not make sense in English translation! So I had to put my own interpretation to the Chinese quote to make more sense haha~

I thought it is beautiful & meaningful, BUT some of the quotes I don’t really agree with…so I have changed some of them, which will NOT be the same at all to the Chinese ok 🙂

Hope you guys enjoy anyways !!

 

Accept

“There is no perfect person.” Remember, when you love someone, you must accept their all, even their imperfections.

(接受)

“世上沒有十全十美的人”。記著,你愛他,就必須接受他的一切,甚至他的缺點。

Belief

Belief in one another is one of the key foundations of love. You need to have belief in your relationship & belief in your other half & belief that you both can make it through the roller-coasters of life. Without it, your relationship will only end in heartbreak.

(信任)

不信任對方,經常以懷疑的口吻盤問對方,這種互相猜忌的愛情就只有分手下場。

Care

Show that you care by showering the one you love with attention. Sometimes a simple call to each other & expressing concerns such as: “Working hard?”,  or reminding him that: “The weather is cold, remember to put on more clothes”, can show the depths of how much you care about your other half. I think C should also stand for Cherish. To cherish your loved ones every single day you spend with them

(關心)

關心的程度正好表現你對對方的重視程度,間或打個電話給對方關心地問候一句:“工作辛苦嗎?”又或者傳呼他:“天氣涼了,記得多加點衣服”。這些關心未必有實際用途,但起碼能令對方暖在心頭。

Diligence

During an emotional roller coaster, if the other party is a “convex”, then why don’t you be a “concave” & show patience to comfort your loved ones? By showing diligence in your actions towards one another shows that you are putting sincere effort into a relationship to make it work.

(理解)

我們不是聖人,總有情緒起伏的時候,若對方是“凸”的時候,你何不做“凹”去忍耐一下他,安慰一下他呢?

Encouragement

When couples encourage & support each other-  especially in the face of adversities & shortcomings, the energy & enthusiasism from your loved ones acts as an incentive stronger than one can imagine.

(激勵)

夫妻之間互相欣賞,互相激勵,尤其是在逆境和一些關鍵時刻,來自伴侶的激勵的能量遠比想象的要強的多。

Freedom

Your partner should still have the right to their freedom & space. The other half of your life is not your slave that can be trapped in a cage & suffocated. I believe that you can still do what you love to do within reason. But if it affects your relationship & you both are unable to compromise, then it would never work out. I think F should also stand for Forgiveness. To love is to forgive. When you can look past all the mistakes that person has made but also to forgive reasonably.

(自由)

縱然已婚,也應給予對方應有自由及保持秘密的權利。你的另一半不是你的終生奴隸,不要讓他認為跟你結婚就等于被困籠中。

Give

Love is not ‘giving’ & ‘expecting’ something in return.  True Love is giving without reservation & expecting nothing back.

(付出)

愛情這樣東西不一定是你付出“一”,便會收回“一”。但不付出便一定沒有收獲。對你的愛人,應有如對自己一樣,毫無保留地付出,這才算得上真愛。

Heart ❤

The most important props of love is sincerity of heart. Your heart must be sincere in your actions, sincere in love. If you have no heart, how can you love? I think H should also stand for Heal, which links to forgive. Some couples have had their heart-broken & feel that they can never be healed. But to love is to heal & open your heart again to someone else out there & give them a chance to be a part of you.

(心)

愛情最重要的道具是心,你必須真心對待,用心去愛。沒有心,又怎稱得上真心相愛?

 

Independence

Everyone has their own meaning of existence. Couples should not be overly dependent on each other & become each other’s heavy burden. Remember to also love yourself by being independent in your thoughts, independent with your own circle  of friends, not always relying on your partners’ opinions & thoughts, & be enslaved by their wants & needs. Independence could also link to Heal (above). “I” can stand for Individual as well. Each person is different, you should not expect a new loved one in your life to be like someone you loved previously.

(獨立)

甜言蜜語的人會說:“我是為了你而生。”其實,每個人都有自己的生存意義,不應過分依賴對方,成為對方的沉重負擔,甚至累贅。

Jealousy

It is natural to be jealous for attention, but keep in mind to be reasonable.  If not, it will only provoke resentment in each other. To be jealous can show you care, but it can also show your selfishness.

(妒忌)

適當的妒忌、呷醋能表示你對對方的重視,但切記是合情合理的呷醋;反之,毫不講理,大發雷霆地呷醋,必惹反感。

Kiss

A kiss is worth a thousand words.  A gentle & simple kiss can represent that you cherish & love them, so please do not be parsimonious with your lips.

(吻)

一吻勝過千言萬語,輕輕的一吻已能代表你惜他、愛護他,所以請不要吝嗇你的紅唇

Love

Love & infatuation are different. To love someone, you must be willing to do anything for them & it is not temporary nor impulsive. The security & knowledge of being loved is more sweet than any gift in the world.

(愛)

都說是愛情,沒有愛又怎會有情呢?愛跟喜歡不同,愛一個人,你必定願意為他做任何事,這是最高的境界。親時不妨跟對方說句“我愛你”,擔保比任何禮物來得甜蜜開心。

Mature

Young love are mostly naive & impulsive.  As you mature in love, your relationship will blossom, be more stable & fruitful.

(成熟)

為什麼一般人的初戀總會無聲無色地慘敗,因為年輕人都戀愛得較幼稚。況且,沒有一個人會喜歡對方長年沒頭沒腦地蹦蹦跳跳。人成熟一點,你的愛情變會早熟一點,直到開花結果。

Natural

When first dating, most people will hide their true self & become another person. Be natural in love as love will bring out all your natural imperfections.

(自然)

很多人初拍拖時都會把一切的缺點隱藏起來,變成另一個人。日子久了,缺點才一籮籮地出現,令對方吃不消。其實,不做作,流于自然的愛情才是細水長流的。

Observe

Carefully observe the preferences of your loved ones, not only to better understand each other but to surprise them in your thoughtfulness & consideration. A share of mind & thought is more precious than gifts.

(觀察)

經常細心觀察愛侶的喜好,不但能更了解對方,更能給他驚喜。那份心意必定比禮物來得珍貴。

Protection

A man’s duty is to protect his lady, but a lady’s duty is to protect & respect her man’s dignity. Both  should not allow others to slander &  insult your other half. P should also stand for Passion. The should always be fire in your heart where you remember the day you fell in love & the reasons why you are in love. Love should not be a habit, but something new, fierce & evolving each day with La PASSION!!!

(保護)

做男朋友的當然要保護女朋友,但做女朋友的亦要保護對方的尊嚴,不應容許別人中傷、侮辱你的另一半。

Quarter (Ok I don’t know why it is written as Q hahaha, but in Chinese is means something along the lines of having the ability to forgive & full of wisdom, basically a BIG HEART- but correct me if I’m wrong!)

(寬大)

寬大是基本的要訣,對愛侶的錯誤,你應以寬大的態度原諒他,因為你是最愛他的人。

Rock

Love is being there, like a rock through the storm. To be there for support- not just for the happy times, but through all the shortcomings. R should also stand for Responsibility. Be responsible in your mistakes, in your role & in your relationship. If there is something wrong, be responsible enough to face it & fix it, not avoid it.

(接收)

對于愛侶為你所做的,請不要表現得無動于衷,令他氣餒。他付出,你便應以欣賞的態度去接受,這才能令感情更進一步。

Selfless

Love is selfless, thinking also for your loved wants & if you will throw yourselves under the bus for them, to sacrifice for them. Love is not selfish.

(分享)

若你愛他,就必能與他分享他的喜與哀,這是作為一個伴侶最簡單的責任。

Tenderness

Love is gentle & tender, not forceful.

(溫柔)

歌都有得唱《Love me tender》啦!愛人當然要溫柔地愛,因為男人女人缺乏溫柔都不可愛。

Understand

Love is understanding & taking into consideration the other person’s point of view even when in disagreement.

(明白)

不明白對方的想法,對方跟你說話,你永遠只獨自發呆,那就是一段缺乏溝通的愛情。多站在對方立場,將心比心地想,必定能更了解你的另一半

Veracity

(誠實)

對愛情,必須一百倍的誠實,你也不想你的另一半是個“大話精”吧!時常互相欺騙的感情又怎能天長地久呢?

Wait

The will to wait is an essential element in a relationship. If you love them, you must be willing to wait for them to grow & to get past the bitter days together. But of course, not wait forever for them to stop being a playboy! lol

(等待)

等待是維系一段感情的基本元素。最重要的是你要與他同步成長,這樣,等待雖是痛苦的,也是幸福的。

X-“X” (multiplication symbol)

Use the love you feel for your partner & multiply that feeling each day & slowly, your love will be stronger each day. (Ok but lets not go PSYCHO love ok, cuz then it would be called OBSESSION hahaha)

(乘法符號)

把你對他的愛每天以倍數地乘上去,愛情自然變成無限大,愛情走也走不掉。

Yearning (miss)

“Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” Enough said 🙂

(想念)

工作或不在一起時,不妨多想念對方,間或致電或傳呼他說句“我很掛念你”必能令對方甜在心頭,更起勁地工作。

Zest (warm)

Zesting up a relationship shows enthusiasm It would not be an enjoyable relationship if the other person is always cold.

(熱情)

像小龍女般雖然貌若天仙,卻冷若冰霜的情人,除了楊過,相信都沒有人願意跟她一生一世。所以,做愛侶的,適當的熱情能增添不少樂趣,但切忌過分熱情。

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Hope you guys enjoyed this as much as me.

Goodnight World.

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